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Stalkers turn to cellphones

2009-03-04 11:43

Buffalo, New York - The college student had endured months of online and cellphone harassment from her ex-boyfriend. She ignored the barrage of e-mails, changed her phone number and dismantled online profiles to cut him off.

Then one evening, her cellphone signalled a new text message. It was him again.

"You should keep to yourself and stay away from other people," the message said, according to the student, who spoke on the condition of anonymity because she feared for her safety. Her ex had found her photo online and attached it.

As text messaging has boomed in recent years, it has also given rise to so-called "textual harassment".

Text messages antagonise recipients in a way that is not easily ignored: Most people are never far from their cellphones, and the gadgets tend to chirp until unopened messages are acknowledged.

Adding another sting, the victims are often charged by their cellphone companies for receiving the messages.

A study of stalking by the US Justice Department's Bureau of Justice Statistics released last month confirmed that stalking by texting has become a pervasive problem.

Cyberstalking

The report found 23 percent of stalking or harassment victims reported in 2006 that the stalker had used some form of cyberstalking, such as cellphone texting or e-mail, to harass them. It was the agency's first measure of the emerging practice, said Katrina Baum, one of the study's authors.

"Technology has become a quick and easy way for stalkers to monitor and harass their victims," the report said.

And unless calling plans include unlimited texting, recipients are charged an average of 20 cents for each message sent or received, wanted or not.

"I was paying to be harassed, which is a lot of fun," the victimised college student said.

US providers including Verizon Wireless, AT&T and Sprint say they are willing to work with customers who are charged for unwanted messages.

Verizon Wireless handled 90 billion text messages in the last quarter of 2008 alone, more than double the number during the same period a year earlier. AT&T customers sent nearly 80 billion texts in the quarter. Sprint customers sent 41 billion in the 3rd quarter of 2008.

Sense of anonymity

Having a device deliver a message tends to embolden people and provides a sense of anonymity, even when the messages can be tracked to a sender, said Jayne Hitchcock, president of the volunteer organisation WHOA, Working to Halt Online Abuse.

"They would never do this to someone in person," Hitchcock said, "yet they use the faceless avenue of cellphones, their computers or home/office phones to perpetrate the harassment."

States have scrambled to react to the new threat. Forty-six states now have anti-stalking laws that refer to electronic forms of communication, according to the National Conference of State Legislatures.

Only four states - Tennessee, Texas, Utah and Washington - explicitly name text messaging, but laws that are less specific may also be applied to text harassment.

Last year in New York's Kings County Court, a defendant was accused of sending six threatening text messages to a woman during a 17-hour period. The messages said the defendant was outside the woman's house and that she would end up in the hospital.

'Uncomfortable feeling'

The defendant tried to get aggravated harassment charges thrown out by arguing that text messages were not as serious as phone calls or letters and were not covered by state law, but the court disagreed.

Technological developments "along with their many benefits, bring with them ever greater potential for abuse", the court wrote.

The college student said she walked the rest of the way home that first night her ex texted her with the uncomfortable feeling he might be crouched in the bushes, even though she knew he lived several states away.

The texts and e-mails kept coming for more than a year and ranged from innocuous appeals for contact to disturbing insinuations of violence. The contact stopped in December, when the man messaged her that he had found someone else.

Customers who do feel threatened are advised to call law enforcers, who can then contact the provider to identify the sender.

A website sponsored by the Family Violence Prevention Fund, Ad Council and Office of Violence Against Women offers a textual harassment forum where teenagers trade advice and experiences with overzealous or unwanted texting.

The site, www.thatsnotcool.com, also has e-mailable reply "callout cards" that offer a lighter approach to resolve what could be a serious problem, with messages including "You're much more attractive when you're not textually harassing me," and "Thanks for helping me exceed my text message limit."

- AP


H 3/4/2009 12:20:11 PM
If you have a phone running the Symbian OS there are a few apps that allow you to reject calls and SMS's even before your phone acknowledges receipt. I block all Private Numbers in this way. Not sure if I may post links here but search for "mysymbian blacklist".

Helen 3/4/2009 12:34:46 PM
This is a very applicable issue. I am currently experiencing the same problem, a person sending unpleasant sms's from a pre- paid sim. I have opened a case with the police but trying to get them to take it seriously is another matter! South Africa is behind the USA and Europe in terms of anti- stalking legislation.

G 3/4/2009 1:08:57 PM
I have an ex-boyfriend who does this very same thing, calls (over 100x in a single day), SMS and MMS revolting pictures. Mobile networks should have a facility to block unwanted numbers. Arthur, i now know where u live and i know where u work.. stop it

Helpless 3/4/2009 1:13:27 PM
I received calls from someone who would just hang up as soon as I pick up. And reject my call when I phone back. Always at odd hours. Tried to get my cellphone provider to block the calls but they will not. Think it should be a standard feature to block calls and text messages from anyone if you wanted to. Come on Vodacom/MTN/CellC - implement and I will be a customer for life!

Vengeance 3/4/2009 1:58:15 PM
I had a cellphone stalker too, but he didn't know who he was messing with, see this guy would call me with random numbers and send me sms or mms. I turned the tables on him when I entered his numbers on one of those cellphone dating things profile(all the numbers he used to stalk me with). I know that wasn't a good thing to do and I wouldn't do it to anyone else, but this person had it coming

Carlos Ribeiro 3/4/2009 2:06:07 PM
See Daily Dispatch blog of 23rd Jan entitled Doctor's Stalker Nightmare.

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