Ask Sis Dolly: Am i gay?

By Drum Digital
06 July 2016

I’ve never considered myself gay but I’ve started caring for my best friend a little more than I think I should.

I’ve never considered myself gay but I’ve started caring for my best friend a little more than I think I should.

I get jealous when he starts dating a woman he likes and I’ve become very protective of him – he’s a few years younger than me.

I don’t know if I’m just jealous that he’s able to find someone and I’m not.

When I think about it, he fits my idea of a perfect partner, and I often wonder what his penis size is.

Do you think I’m gay or just suffering from jealousy and penis envy?

Sis Dolly Answers

What you’re feeling has nothing to do with friendship.

If you’re jealous and even find yourself wondering about your friend’s manhood, then you might have developed romantic feelings for him.

Before thinking about him as a partner, first confirm your sexual orientation.

This will help you clarify what it is you’re feeling for your friend.

You can contact OUT on 012-430-3272 or e-mail them on hello@out.org.za for more advice.

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