Ask Sis Dolly: Can't stop imagining him cheating

By Drum Digital
11 September 2015

I'm 28 and have been with my boyfriend for nine years. Last month, he cheated on me and slept with a woman at his home, and then she told me about it.

When I confronted him, he admitted it. When I asked him why he cheated, he said he didn't know and he was sorry. I accepted his apology but everytime we make love, I just picture him and that woman. What should I do?

Sis Dolly answers:

You need to resolve this with your man and within yourself, too. It takes time, so give yourself that time. This might mean saying to your boyfriend that you're uncomfortable making love because of this picture in your head. He owes you the support and time to heal, seeing as he doesn't know why he does things that hurt you badly.

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