Ask Sis Dolly: DATING A MARRIED MAN

By Pheto Ramakobya
10 February 2016

I’ve been dating a married man for four years.

We work together and spend more time together when we’re off duty.

We just love each other but sometimes it doesn’t feel right. I want to end this madness because it might ruin his marriage.

Please help me.

Sis Dolly answer 

Look at it this way: he’s splitting his time between you and his wife.

Technically, you “ruined” his marriage when you chose to enter into this relationship with him four years ago.

I’ve always said that the man who chooses to have more than one wife and lives his life in the open has more integrity than the man who keeps women in the shadows.

Whether or not I agree with the notion of polygamy, I still believe that you are owed the dignity of not being hidden, and the choice you must make is a courageous one.

If a person is married, they cannot be “dating”. The only way I can help is to tell you what you know and want to do already.

End it.

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