Ask Sis Dolly: Does she still love me?

By Drum Digital
01 September 2016

I’ve cheated on her and in 2008 she told me she stopped loving me a year ago.

I’m a 42-year-old guy and my wife is 35. We’ve been together for 17 years.

I’ve cheated on her and in 2008 she told me she stopped loving me a year ago. Now, we live like strangers in the same house. There’s no touching, saying “I love you” or passion in our marriage any more.

Even when we make love, she just lies there with her eyes closed. Is it possible that she stopped loving me a long time ago?

Sis Dolly answers

Trust is very fragile and once broken, it is hard to rebuild. Cheating also changes the way you relate intimately.

She has admitted to you that she stopped loving you in 2007, and her actions prove that it is true.

Your wife might sometimes think of what you were doing with the other woman while you are intimate and this will spoil the mood and ultimately your relationship. You both need to decide if ‘Cheating changes the way you relate intimately

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