Ask Sis Dolly: He broke my heart

By Drum Digital
04 October 2016

I just found out that my boyfriend had a baby with another girl, when I asked him about it, he just laughed and pretended everything was fine

I just found out that my boyfriend had a baby with another girl. When I asked him about it, he just laughed and pretended everything was fine.

I’m heartbroken and don’t know what to do. I cry every night. I didn’t dump him; I just changed my number so he can’t contact me anymore.

I think about him all the time and I’m afraid to move on and get another boyfriend.

What if the same thing happens again?

Sis Dolly answers 

What you need right now is closure before moving on. Otherwise you will end up taking baggage from this relationship to your next one, and that won’t be fair to the person you’ll ultimately get involved with.

I suggest you gather some courage and face your boyfriend and tell him how you feel about what has happened, and your decision to part ways. Only then will you be able to heal and move on with your life.

Live your life, don’t just survive for the sake of someone else.

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