Ask Sis Dolly: He cheated and broke up with me but won’t let me go

By Drum Digital
15 April 2014

What to do with a cheating ex who broke up with you but wont let go

Anonymous asks: I was engaged to a guy who cheated on me with a married woman and then broke up with me. Now he pretends he doesn’t love me anymore, but he’s very jealous when he sees me with other guys and keeps track of where I go and what I do. What must I do?

Sis Dolly answers  

Think you should move on – unless you’re the one who is struggling to get over him and not the other way round!

Ignore him, unless you feel intimidated by his actions or he threatens to hurt you or the new guys you’ve befriended. Face the music: this guy cheated on you – and with a married woman, too. What does this tell you about him and his values? He’s a liar and a cheat . . . is this the kind of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with?

Love hurts and I’m sure you’re confused, but keep a clear head about what has happened and one day you’ll realise you’ve made a lucky escape.

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