Ask sis Dolly: He has a mistress

By Drum Digital
25 June 2015

My partner cheated on me and now has a baby with the other woman.

I forgave him for that, and we got married. Three years later, I found out they're still dating. I'm depressed and confused about what to do now.

Sis Dolly answers:

What are you confused about? The man is a liar and a cheat. You need to sit down and have a discussion with your husband to help you decide what your next step are. from what I see, the man has no intention of letting this other woman go. Because they have a child together, he will always be in contact with her. As a married man, he needs to know there's a difference between taking care of his child, and having sex with his child's mother. What it looks like is that he wants the wife and the mistress, otherwise why marry you? You need to decide if you're willing to live with that, and the two of them in your life. I understand you're broken. In orders to properly heal, you need to make choices that leave you feeling empowered and able to hold your head up with pride knowing you're not a puppet in another person's drama.

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