Ask Sis Dolly: He won't talk about sex

By Drum Digital
15 September 2016

My boyfriend doesn’t want us to talk about sex at all – before, during or after – and I’m not sure whether he enjoys it or not, sometimes after having sex, he gets out of bed and puts on his clothes

My boyfriend doesn’t want us to talk about sex at all – before, during or after – and I’m not sure whether he enjoys it or not, sometimes after having sex, he gets out of bed and puts on his clothes.

At times, he also doesn’t want me to touch his private parts, which is the thing I like the most.

All he wants to talk about is church and the Bible. I used to listen but because it has become an everyday topic, I fall asleep when he starts.

Is he wrong or is it me?

Sis Dolly answers 

It sounds like your boyfriend is a staunch religious believer and he might be thinking of the religious rule that forbids sex before marriage.

You should talk to him about your feelings and hear what he has to say.

Understanding each other and coming to a compromise might be the solution If you find it hard to confront him, you can find a relationship counsellor through Famsa at 011-975-7106.

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