Ask Sis Dolly: He's over me

By Drum Digital
08 September 2015

I dated this guy in high school and it didn't work out. However, I met up with him last December and we started chatting on WhatsApp and started a WhatsApp relationship.

Then he broke up with me saying that I'm always doubting myself and I'm not his type of woman. Is there anything I can do to change his mind or should I forget about him? I really like this guy and I believe we're meant to be.

Sis Dolly answers:

You would need to ask him if there's anything you could do to change his mind. However, I'd caution against trying too hard to be someone you're not. I sometimes find that young women think it's cute to dumb themselves down for men but it just makes you seem overly dependent on them for their approval. If this is what you've been doing, then he needs something different. If not, you need to ask him what he would need from you. Then you need to see if you're prepared to give him that without compromising your authentic self, soul or integrity. You might find that what he needs is not something you're able or prepared to give. This is also fine. And ultimately, if you're not his type there's very little you can do to change that. Let him go and find your type of man.

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