Ask Sis Dolly: I hate his child

By Drum Digital
03 November 2016

My boyfriend and I have a six-year old son but when my son was three, we broke up for a year and he fathered another child during that time, We got back together but the problem is I hate his child so much

My boyfriend and I have a six-year old son but when my son was three, we broke up for a year and he fathered another child during that time.

We got back together but the problem is I hate his child so much. I’ve even started making excuses not to marry my boyfriend anymore.

Please help.

Sis Dolly answers

Are you sure it’s the child that’s holding you back from marrying him and not other reasons? Because the child he had when you two were apart is an innocent victim.

He has nothing to do with your relationship with your man. All you have to do is make sure that you have an agreement in place about how and when your boyfriend can be involved with the child.

Don’t be bitter about something that you can do nothing about because you can’t wish the child away.

Instead, just think about how you would feel if the roles were reversed and it was your son who was hated.

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