Ask Sis Dolly: I'm A Cheater

By Drum Digital
30 October 2015

My problem is that I'm still cheating and I want to stop doing this.

I'm 30 years old and in a very good relationship with my girlfriend, who's 29. We have three children. It's not like I am going after girls - they proposition me even though they know I have a good bond with the only one I love. How can I get out of this.

Sis Dolly answers:

Oh Shame, poor you! You're so in demand that you just have to say "yes". Face it, you're weak. Not only that, you've convinced yourself that you're not in control of your decisions and it's the fault of all these women who "make" you cheat.

Own up that you're the problem and you're choosing to cheat. Take charge of your life, say "no" to propositions and make a genuine commitment to your family.

You have a good relationship and three children. Why is she still your girlfriend and not your wife?It seems you have commitment issues - deal with these, then do the right thing.

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