Ask Sis Dolly: I'm an obsessive lover

By Drum Digital
02 April 2016

I love my fiance very much but when he does something I don’t like, I become aggressive.

I think I have an obsessive love disorder. I love my fiance very much but when he does something I don’t like, I become aggressive.

I feel like he doesn’t love me and I could beat him badly. Sometimes I feel like he doesn’t give me enough attention even though we are always together.

For instance, if I called him more than three times a day without him calling me, I’m suspicious. I also get angry when his family doesn’t call me.

Sis Dolly Answers

A Yes, you are being obsessive. You feel as though you own this other person and his family and that they all “owe” you attention. You believe that if you don’t get what you want, the other person must be punished.

You need to go for counselling to work through your anger and find the source of the problem. Other people have their own wants, needs and motivations.

If you can’t handle this reality, it’s a serious issue and someone could be seriously hurt. Please find a psychologist through your local clinic or your doctor.

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