Ask sis Dolly: Is he using me?

By Drum Digital
22 May 2015

I'm 19 and dating my former primary school teacher.

He's 42 and has two children. He's still in love with their mother, but they don't live together. I really love him. He sometimes, visits me at my room, and I also visit him. But I'm afraid he doesn't love me like I love him, and I'm afraid I'll lose him. What can I do not to feel stressed and be happy in my relationship.

Sis Dolly answers:

If he'e still in love with the mother of his children then what is he doing with you? I think he's just using you as his plaything. I really don't think you have him to lose. He's clearly nnot yours in mind, body or spirit. Your gut feeling that he doesn't love you as much as you love him is 100% correct. You're hanging on to a very thin thread of hope. What you can do can do to not feel stressed, is to leave this relationship and move o with your life.

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