Ask Sis Dolly: Is it too soon?

By Drum Digital
29 September 2016

I’m 23 and in a relationship with a guy aged 26, he wants us to get engaged, Is it too soon to get engaged even though we’ve only been dating for a year?

I’m 23 and in a relationship with a guy aged 26. He wants us to get engaged. My family don’t know about him yet, as they think I’m still with a guy I’ve left.

I love the guy I’m with now and his family knows about us. I’m still a student and I really feel like it’s the best thing ever being with him.

I see myself being with him forever.

Is it too soon to get engaged even though we’ve only been dating for a year?

Sis Dolly answers

Do you feel a year is enough to be with someone and learn all there is to know about them? If you do, then there’s no need for you to worry about whether to commit or not, unless there are other reservations you might have

about him.

Before even considering his proposal, however, you need to be honest with your family, and tell them what is going on.

If he proposes you won’t have any challenges when he has to meet them.

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