Ask Sis Dolly: My friend is having his baby

By Drum Digital
25 August 2016

I got back with my ex-boyfriend after two years, I’m happy and love him a lot, but he slept with my friend while we were apart, now my friend says she’s having my boyfriend’s baby and he doesn’t deny it

I got back with my ex-boyfriend after two years. I’m happy and love him a lot. But he slept with my friend while we were apart. Now my friend says she’s having my boyfriend’s baby and he doesn’t deny it.

I don’t know if I’m going to be able to see my ex-friend around us all the time. I think this situation will tear us apart.

I love him and I’m ready to spend my life with him.

I just don’t know what to do.

Sis Dolly answers 

It seems you’re willing to forgive your boyfriend, but have already made up your mind about your friend.

Remember, it takes two to tango. They both entered into the relationship knowingly and didn’t think about how it would affect you.

However, your boyfriend has a responsibility towards the child. What would work for the three of you is if you talk about when and how the baby mama will have contact with your boyfriend, and make sure you are also happy with it, too.

The agreement shouldn’t have a negative impact on your relationship.

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