Ask Sis Dolly: Tired of life

By Drum Digital
07 September 2015

I'm tired of life and now I am thinking of committing suicide because of all my problems.

Please help me if you can.

Sis Dolly answers:

Sometimes the problems we have seem so unbearable that we just can't see a way out. What I can say to you is, while we're still alive there's no problem that can't be fixed. Sometimes it just takes longer to be able to see the solution, especially when you have serious financial problems and you need the smallest of things to ensure your survival.

I can't give you solutions because I don't know the problems you face. What I can say to you is that finding the smallest thing, setting the smallest goal for yourself can give you a sense of victory.

So for example, if you're unable to get out of bed because you feel as if you have no purpose, set yourself the task of getting out of bed and bathing. The next day, set yourself the task of going for a short walk, then set the goal of talking to someone to see if they can help you find a job, etc.

If these are not the things challenging you, find the things in your life that can give you those victories. With every accomplishment, no matter how big or small, recognise the effort and the success and give yourself a pat on the back.

You have my support, I wish you the best in your journey to wholeness.

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