Ask Sis Dolly: Who do I choose?

By Drum Digital
01 April 2016

In high school I met a guy I liked but we didn’t date. We kissed at the matric farewell but nothing came of it. Two years later, I had a fiancé, but we broke up shortly after our baby was born.

In  high school I met a guy I liked but we didn’t date. We kissed at the matric farewell but nothing came of it. Two years later, I had a fiancé, but we broke up shortly after our baby was born.

I then dated an awesome guy for two years, before breaking up when he started hitting me. Then I met a guy who is a year younger than me. He’s sweet but I feel I’m a handful for him and don’t think it will last.

Seven years later, the first guy and I are still friends, we talk about everything and we go to business seminars and events together. The thing is that he has a girlfriend.

Should I wait for him, go back to the second one or continue with the younger guy?

Sis Dolly Answers

Go back to yourself and decide what it is you want from a relationship. Choose to be without a boyfriend until you can love and honour yourself enough so you don’t consider being with an abuser, a guy you’re a “handful for” or a guy with a girlfriend.

Spend time on your own figuring out who you are. Once you are content with being you, you’ll attract someone who will tick all your boxes.

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