Attracting the kind of love you deserve

By Drum Digital
17 July 2014

An attitude of gratitude will light you up tot he right ones.

Donald speaks about it and we all know it exists -  a love that you know is worthy of the time and effort it takes to make relationships work.

Coming by it is as much a matter of patience as it is doing some work on yourself.

Here are some tips on attracting the kind of love you truly deserve:

1 TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

Be your top priority and give only when you genuinely can. Good self-care turns on a light inside you that is unmistakably attractive.

2 SET STRONG BOUNDARIES

Begin to explore the idea that "no" is a full sentence and see what wonders it does for you. You will feel less betrayed and under-appreciated once you have rules of engagement.

3 COMPLETE YOUR PAST

You think you are reacting to the situation in front of you but, in reality, you are reacting to the past. An incomplete past dims your light and makes you unattractive - don't let this happen to you and ruin a good relationship.

4 STOP BEING ANGRY

This doesn’t mean swallowing your anger and pretending it’s not there. It means doing what you need to do to let go of it.

5 MAKE INTEGRITY A PRIORITY

You feel better about yourself when you abide by your own standards. The better you feel about yourself, the brighter you shine and the more attractive you are to people with similar values.

6 DON’T AVOID ISSUES

The more you communicate, the more you will shine. It also helps avoid the issue of harboring matters that have long passed.

7 BE FEARLESS

Sure, your heart could be broken, but having taken the risk, you’ll feel alive. The more risks you take, the more alive you feel and the more attractive you are.

8 BE GENEROUS AND KIND, WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED

Do something loving and kind, repeatedly, with no expectation of getting anything in return. Do something generous in your most significant relationships.

9 HAVE COMPASSION

The more you “get” people and understand them, the more attractive you become

10 BE GRATEFUL

Count your blessings. Celebrate life. An attitude of gratitude will light you up tot he right ones.

-OPRAH.COM

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