Date like a boss

By Drum Digital
10 October 2014

You are the CEO of your life, including your love life. You decide who gets hired, fired, promoted or demoted.

There is so much we have no control over when it comes to dating. Think of some of the following scenarios as examples:

  •  You love him but you're not sure he loves you back
  •  He used to text you every night and then suddenly stopped
  •  You thought things were going great until he disappeared without so much as an email to say goodbye
  •  You were so sure he was going to commit and then he gave you some lame excuse about "not needing a piece of paper" to show you he loves you

How are you meant to handle this?

Some dating experts tell women to be passive and not to pressure the guy or give ultimatums. This can be linked to the idea that "the one convinced against his will is of the same opinion still." You can't make anyone love you or commit to you.

We only have control over our own actions and reactions to how others behave towards us.

You are the CEO of your life, including your love life. You decide who gets hired, fired, promoted or demoted.

Don't be so impressed by who he is on a date. Pay attention to the man who shows up in between dates.

After keen observation of his behaviour towards you, decide whether or not he’s worked for a promotion or demotion - LIKE A BOSS!

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