"Don’t Apologise For Who You Are."- DJ Zinhle

By Pheto Ramakobya
19 November 2015

2015 has been a roller coaster ride for DJ Zinhle, from welcoming her first child into the world to parting ways with her rapper boyfriend AKA.

Dj Zinhle took to her blog to reflect on what growing up has taught her and how she had to deal with the critics surrounding her pregnancy.

“As I grew up, going through tertiary, relationships, friendships, starting a business and encountering numerous other events in my life, things have changed. Many of my beliefs have shifted. The thing about growing up is that as you grow and as life throws you between sadness and joy, between pains and healing, your mind starts opening up. It’s called experience”

“I have been subjected to a lot of criticism ever since I fell pregnant. People seem to think that they know what is best for me and if I do not agree then I am seen as a bad mom and a horrible person."

"I have had to grow a tough skin and stand up for what I believe in. I am growing and learning and yes, I will make mistakes, we all do, but I have made a list of the things I will not apologise for.”

Zinhle has listed things she will not apologise for including trying to be the best mother to baby Kairo. Also admitting that she is growing and she’s still going to make mistakes along the way too.

She wrote “I will not apologise for loving and raising Kairo the best way I can. I might not always do things in a way which people agree with, but my intentions are always to make sure she has the best life”

She also blogged her soul and heart out saying she will not apologies for wanting the best from love and being who she is today.

“I will not apologise for demanding the best from love because anyone who loves me half heartedly does not deserves the honor of carrying my heart in their hands."

She continued to say: "I will not apologise for my upbringing because if shaped the strong woman that I am today, Kairo’s mom, the kind and compassionate person who knows that she is not perfect and will never be perfect but will always be her best and show kindness to others.I will not apologise for who I am.”

 

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