Five questions to ask the man you are dating

By Drum Digital
19 March 2015

Being in the dating game, can be time consuming, especially if you are a busy person. Asking questions will eliminate the unnecessary parties.

Being in the dating game, can be time consuming, especially if you are a busy person. Asking questions will help eliminate the unnecessary parties.

1. Why me?

Do not be scared, it is not an insecurity question. You simply want to know and understand his reason for choosing/picking you. His reason can be interesting too, so go for it, ask.

2. What is your aim/purpose in dating?

You want to know if he wants casual sex or something more serious like a permanent relationship. This helps with jumping in too deep into something that is not mutual.

3. When is sex appropriate?

Will he expect to have access to your body like a husband would? Will it be worth it? It is an emotional matter for women, so it should not be taken lightly.

4. How is/was the relationship between his mother and father?

You want to know what was modeled for him as a young child. His opinion about women might be revealed here.

5. Do you have men in your life that you are accountable to?

Every man should have other men in his life that he is accountable to. It does not necessarily have to be biological father, but someone they look up to and who keep them motivated and inspired.

Source: blackmarriedwithkids

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