Shoulda, coulda, woulda

By Drum Digital
08 October 2014

Have you ever thought of that special someone from your past and wished you could have done things differently?

Have you ever thought of that special someone from your past and wished you could have done things differently?

Was there a specific memory that made you wish you could have one more chance to change things?

Here are some popular responses, on what people would do different if they had the chance:

  • I wouldn’t take my partner for granted

  •  I would make more of an effort to ensure he/she felt valued
  •  I would listen more and argue less
  •  I would create more intimacy between the two of us
  •  I would find more “us” time
  •  I would make more of an effort to make our blended family connect
  •  I would be more accepting of he/she is and less critical
  •  I would be more supportive of their dreams and goals
  •  I would meet them where they are and not where I think they should be
  • I would make them my EXCLUSIVE mate

Most times we aren’t fortunate enough to give relationships another go. Try to use these lessons for your future relationship or, if you’re with someone now, make a conscious decision not to make these mistakes again.

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