Testotherapy: My son doesn’t want a relationship with me

By Drum Digital
02 March 2017

My son doesn’t want anything to do with me, I tried to buy him clothes and toys but he is not interested, I am losing patience

Question: 

I am 33 and my first born child is 10.

I want to have a relationship with him as I was prevented by ex-girlfriend from being with him.

My son doesn’t want anything to do with me. I tried to buy him clothes and toys but he is not interested.

I am losing patience.

BRA MO ANSWERS

You are doing a very good thing.

It is never easy to establish a relationship with a child, especially if you have never been part of their life before.

Therefore you should never lose hope nor get impatient.

Have you ever tried to explain to your son why couldn’t be a part of his life? You shouldn’t do it to cast a negative light on your ex, however you should say words such as ‘If I could go back in time, you would make things differently.’

A child of ten years clearly understands far more and they can freely express their feelings.

Find out what kind of things he likes and starts talking to him about it.

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