Three questions to ask before getting “serious”

By Drum Digital
09 December 2014

Here are questions to ask yourself when trying to determine if you are ready to move forward in your relationship or not.

Here are questions to ask yourself when trying to determine if you are ready to move forward in your relationship or not:

Do we make a good team?

Does your partner complement you? Does s/he bring something to the relationship that you are not good at? If you are deficient in one area or another, you want to find someone who is strong in those areas. Many of your mate’s strengths should fill places where you are weak.

Does he/she have my back?

It’s easy to say you have someone’s back if you haven’t had the opportunity to prove it. Committed relationships are going to endure challenges. When you find you can overcome adversity together, it strengthens the bond of a relationship and solidifies the trust and loyalty that someone will truly be with you “for better or worse.”

Are we compatible?

The difference between compatibility and chemistry is that chemistry is untested and not tangible, while compatibility provides specific examples of how well we work together. The true test of compatibility is whether we add value to each other that as individuals we cannot accomplish alone.

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