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Enjoy life as a single lady

By Faeza
28 June 2016

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GO out and have fun. Enjoy being single. There are more single people now than ever before.

Get out of the house and do fun things that you really enjoy doing. This will help you to mingle with like-minded people who enjoy the same activities. Love, life and excitement do not show up at your doorstep. They are out there waiting for you. Don’t go on a hunting spree.

Don’t go out looking or hoping for a man. I assure you that men can sense when they are being hunted. And guys will do one of two things – take advantage of your desperation or

run! Either way, you don’t want that.

FOCUS ON YOUR INTERESTS

Think about your interests, whatever they might be. If you love reading, go to bookshops with coffee shops in them. That way, you will be associating with people who have the same interests as you.

Don’t go to a bar unless drinking truly interests you. Too many people make the mistake of thinking that a bar is a great place to meet new people because men love bars.

The truth is, if you don’t enjoy drinking, bars can be a very sad place because you won’t be

going there to have fun.

You will be going there to be picked up. That is not the kind of pressure you want to put on yourself. If you love traveling, join a travel club and go on planned vacations where you will all be pursuing the same interests as all other people attending.

My point is that you need to make a conscious decision to focus on the pursuit of happiness.