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Girlfriend can't climax

By Faeza
08 July 2016

BLACK cOUPLE

I’m a 24-year-old man. My girlfriend does not reach an orgasm every time we have sex even though we have enough foreplay.

ANONYMOUS, PRETORIA

A I’m pleased that you are a considerate boyfriend, but please be careful not to

pressurise her into being orgasmic. I encourage her to become orgasmic alone with masturbation.

Once she can do this, allow her to be free and honest when being sexual with you.

It’s harder for women to be orgasmic with a partner. The best way is for her to be confident with her own sexuality. Secondly, ensure the relationship feels safe for her.