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Help: am I still a virgin after oral bonking?

By Faeza
04 October 2016

Anonymous from Mangaung wrtes:

I’m a 22-year-old guy. I’m still

a virgin. I have a girlfriend

who wants us to have sex. She has

started performing oral sex on me,

and that’s the only thing I seem to

be interested in. Have I now lost my

virginity? I’m scared of having sex.

Dr Eve answers: 

You can enjoy oral sex. You can

also still explore more before

you rush into penetration.

By the way, I hope you are performing

oral sex on your girlfriend too.

Technically, you are still a virgin.

Losing your virginity happens when

you have your first penetrative experience.

When you’re ready for intercourse,

make sure you use a condom.