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HELP: "He does not love me anymore, but I can't let go"

By Faeza
15 July 2016

Anonymous from Kwa- Mhlanga writes:

It has been 15 months since my boyfriend and I broke up, but I’m struggling to let go. He says  he doesn’t love me anymore but when we talk, he always mentions the good times we had together. When I tell him how much I miss being with him, he says that life goes

on and that I will find someone else. How do I let go of the man I love?

Sis Naledi answers:

Keep a distance from him so that you can heal. Tell him you would like to be out of touch

with him for a while, and create new memories for yourself. This will keep you from being depressed, which can make you feel so lonely that you end up going back to the man who says he doesn’t love you anymore.