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HELP: "I am 62 and have never had an orgasm"

By Faeza
05 September 2016

Anonymous from Pretoria writes: 

I’m 62 years old and single. I have had sex but I have never had an orgasm. Am I normal or is there a problem?

Dr Eve answers

The best way to become orgasmic is by stimulating your genitals when you are alone. Masturbation allows you to learn how your body works and to know what

sensations you enjoy. Allow yourself to fantasise and use lubricant to give

you a smooth silky experience. And then when you are sexual with a partner, don’t expect vaginal orgasms because they rarely happen. You can show this person how to stimulate

your clitoris, as you have learned through your own masturbation.