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HELP: "I am in love with two men"

By Faeza
28 November 2016

Anonymous from Port Elizabeth writes:

I’m a 32-year-old woman who is in love with a 36-year-old man. But my problem

is I’m in love with another guy. I don’t know whether the first guy loves me or is just using me because he has a wife. Please help.

Sis Naledi responds:

Your behaviour is very risky and will end up with a bigger problem. Decide whether you want to have a relationship with the first or second guy. Having a relationship with a married man doesn’t end well. If he has a wife, then who do you become? Wife number

two or the side chick? What is the problem with the other guy whom you are dating?

Make up your mind and decide what you want in a relationship and what value you attach to yourself?