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HELP: "I enjoy masturbating than bonking"

By Faeza
12 October 2016

Anonymous from Queenstown writes: 

I’m a 28-year-old man. When

I have sex with my girlfriend

I don’t come, but I later masturbate.

I really enjoy masturbating than

having sex. I need help.

Dr Eve answers: 

Because you are used to

masturbation, you will find

penetration feels different

– maybe not as stimulating. Also

sex with a person is complicated as

you have to talk, please her and tell

her what you need. It is also so very

intimate, caring and enjoyable.

Spend time teaching your girlfriend

what kind of touch you need so you

can have sex with your partner