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HELP: I get very dry when bonking

By Faeza
04 October 2016

Stressed from Kempton Park writes:

I’m a 30-year-old woman

and sometimes I get very

dry and sex becomes so painful

that sometimes blood flows on my

private part for a few days.

Other days I do get wet and then

sex is not so painful. What could be

the cause of this dryness?

Dr Eve answers: 

Dryness is usually caused by

lack of sufficient stimulation

and your relationship to the

person with whom you are making

love. If you are not in the mood, or

you are feeling unsafe or distrustful,

it will show.

Please do not have penetrative sex

unless you are well-lubricated. In the

meantime, use water-based or silicon

based lubricant during intercourse.