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HELP: " I miss my bonking buddy"

By Faeza
09 September 2016

Anonymous from Kagiso writes:

My boyfriend and I recently broke up. Our sex life was great, so we decided to remain sex buddies. But now I can’t help but feel like I’m being used.

I told him how I felt and we argued, and I told him to never call me again. I now miss him

and can’t stop thinking about him.

Dr Eve answers:

It’s not easy to move from one role into another with the same person. This often has

conflicting emotions. If you feel you do not want to continue being his sex buddy, end the relationship for good.

After the break-up, find another way to occupy yourself as going back to

your boyfriend will only leave you with a heartbreak