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HELP: "I regret divorcing my husband"

By Faeza
12 August 2016

Anonymous from Durban:

I divorced my ex-husband four years ago after he cheated on me, but I still love him.

He recently told me that the divorce is just a piece of paper and everything will be fine between us, but nothing has happened. How do I approach him again?

Sis Naledi responds

If your marriage was broken down to a point of divorce, reconciliation should be a

serious joint effort to make sure that you don’t land in a similar or worse situation than before. Marriage is not just about love, a lot of other things need to be in place such as focus, commitment, effective communication and partnership.I suggest you have a more serious and direct talk with him.