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HELP: "I'm in love with a sugar mama"

By Faeza
06 December 2016

Anonymous from Jo'burg writes:

I am a 26-year-old man who

is dating a woman who is

twice my age. She takes good care

of me and I have told my family

about her although I did not tell

them her axact age.

Sis Naledi answers: 

If you have a problem

with her being twice your

age, then your family will

probably have a problem too.

It is very unusual for a 52-year-old

woman to date a 26-year-old

man. We live in societies and

families that have certain values

and norms. If we do things that are

outside those norms and values,

we are frowned upon or even

rejected. If you introduce her to

your family, what do you expect

them to do or say? Do you intend

marrying her? Do you introduce

every girlfriend you meet at home?

Hope these questions guide you to

making better decisions.