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HELP: My lover is bad in bed

By Faeza
24 June 2016

I’m 30 and my boyfriend is 34. I really love him a lot but he’s not that good in bed. He recently asked me to marry him and I said yes but now I’m having second thoughts. I slept with another friend of mine and it was good but I don’t love him. Should I leave my boyfriend for the guy who’s really good in bed or should I stay with my boyfriend?

ANONYMOUS, BETHAL

DR Eve answers anonymous 

If you really love your boyfriend how can you sleep with another man? Being ‘bad’

in bed definitely could be a reason not to marry someone. But if you love the person, you will love spending time teaching him how to be ‘good’ enough for you in bed. I think you are not ready for marriage