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HELP: "She is not sure if I am the father of her child"

By Faeza
07 November 2016

Anonymous from Cape Town writes:

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for more than a year. After she fell pregnant, we stopped having sex as she wasn’t sure who the father of the baby was. After she gave birth she

told me that the baby is not mine, and that she loves me and regrets her mistake. I love her but I’m afraid. What should I do?

Sis Naledi responds:

You seem to love your girlfriend and understand her predicament. If you want

to be with her, then you need to explore what you’re afraid of about being a stepfather. Talk to her about accommodating the biological father.