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HELP: "When I don't sleep with him, he thinks I am cheating"

By Faeza
26 January 2017

Anonymous from Tembisa

I’m 30 years old and I have a daughter. I’m seeing a man my age. Everytime I don’t feel like having sex, we get into a fight. He calls me names and says I’m a cheat. I’ve tried to break up with him because of the abuse but I end up forgiving him. Please help.

Sis Naledi responds:

I have to wonder why you are still with a man who behaves like that, and why you forgive him time after time. He calls you names unjustly and doesn’t trust you. Clearly, he has

no respect for you. For you and your daughter’s sake, you need to get away from this man.