Follow us on:

HELP: "Will my lover notice if I sleep with another man?”

By Faeza
15 November 2016

Anonymous from Rustenburg writes:

Is it true that your boyfriend

can feel that you have slept

with another guy when you have sex

with him. Will there be a difference?

Dr Eve answers: 

Your boyfriend won’t physically

be able to feel that another man

has penetrated you. Your private

part does not change every time you

have a new sexual partner and it also

does not change with the amount of

sex you have. However, if you do not

use a condom with another lover

and are not on birth control, then

your boyfriend is at risk of contracting

sexually transmitted diseases,

including HIV, and having a child who

he believes is his. So look after your

heart and your sexual health.