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"I want to get married, he wants a child"

By admin
24 August 2013

I’m a 24-year-old woman with one child. I’ve been going out with a 30-yearold man for six years. He’s a wonderful, loving, caring person

and I love him with all my heart. He treats my son as his own. He now wants us to have a child together and I don’t know what to do because I want to get married before I add to my family. Please help me make the right decision. I don’t want to do something that I will regret later.

NALEDI, MIDRAND

MOVE! EXPERT ADVICE

It’s good that you’ve found someone who you love and who loves you back, but you need to tell him what you want. He must understand that, although you had your first child out of wedlock, you won’t do the same thing again. I think if he knows how you feel about this, he’ll respect you for being frank, and he might just surprise you and do the right thing. Communication is important in every relationship, and that’s the only way you’ll be able to solve your problems as a couple.