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"My boyfriend of three years cheats on me constantly"

By admin
23 August 2013

I’m a 28-year-old woman and my boyfriend of three years cheats on me constantly. I’ve lost all respect for him because he’s hurt me so much. I was planning my future with him but now I feel I can do better than him – yet I still love him so much.

NOMASONTO, CAPE TOWN

MOVE! EXPERT ADVICE

There’s no trust and honesty in your relationship. You will continue to hurt because he thinks you don’t know about the other women, and he’ll continue to cheat until you tell him that you know what’s going on. You will both have to decide whether to break up or try to mend the relationship. If he’s willing to stop what he’s doing, perhaps you can still work things out. If you decide to stay in this relationship, you must always remember to use condoms to protect yourself from STIs and HIV/Aids.