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She spoils him

By admin
06 November 2013

I am a 25-year-old woman and I have a problem with my 26-year-old boyfriend. I have been in love with him for 10 months and things have been great. He has been the best thing that I have ever had. After he went to visit his family, I started to see some changes and now I have discovered he was seeing an older woman who spoils him very much. I always get the feeling that he wants to leave me because I do not have all the riches to spoil him. He says he is only using her and that he loves me only. He wants us to stay together to prove his love for me and also wants us to have a baby. I’m very much confused at the moment. Please help me. – Baby

Dear Baby

Forget about this boyfriend and move on with your life. It is very hurtful when a man admits to the woman he says he loves and cares for that he is having an affair with another woman. If he really loves you, he would not have this affair. And the worst part of it is that he talks about you being “the only one he loves”. I doubt that this boyfriend loves you.  If you don’t leave him, you will end up feeling frustrated and, even worse, with his child who he won’t even care for.  Such men are not worth it because they always look for rich women, and if you are not rich, they never care for you. They also have a tendency to just live for women who spoil them. There are many well-to-do women who are single and very lonely. Once they get a man like your boyfriend, they never let go. Where is your pride? Why do you allow this man to cheat on you with an older woman? You should be competing with young women in your age group. I feel very strongly that you should find another boyfriend of your own age. You are still young and it is never too late to find a worthy person to love. Stop frustrating yourself about this boy, and good luck!