I always wonder why women see the need to fake everything they do. Apart from orgasms, sometimes love, they also fake the way they look. I fail to understand why wherever I go I see all these long fake nails, make-up and fake smiles. A friend once said to this annoying girl, "Excuse me bit**h, I could remove 90% of your beauty with a towel". True, isn't it?
I appeal to our beautiful sisters to be proud of the way God designed them. No need to copy someone's style or look. Look, if you don't embrace who you are, who will? I dislike people who are uncomfortable enough with themselves to act like something they're not. It's seldom believable to the people who they're trying to impress then I find myself feeling sorry for them. Be yourself and be happy. I believe most are afraid of rejection, they believe if they portray their real selves...they won't be accepted. I suppose this is natural behaviour but still, how are people going to see you for who you are if you put on a masquerade and parade a façade?
Maybe they are afraid that people won't take the chance to know them so they have to have the persona until people know what is inside the real them....fear of rejection is a driving force...it is just cockiness.
I Hate people that think they have to change who they are...how they dress...what music they listen to in order to attempt to fit in........HELLO NEWSFLASH!!!! you are never going to fit in ... we are all different...and for a good reason...why don't you make out your own path and follow that because if you follow others all your life you will not achieve anything yourself.....people are so afraid to show there true self at fear of being judged...well I say if they don't like me .... then **** them, that's their problem....people are afraid to go at it alone. They don't want to be out casted from others....let me tell you something................if you do what YOU want to do you will be much happier...don't listen to others...learn form your own mistakes.....being alone is everybody's fear and its not nice but you need to be alone to become your own person and then make true friends in life that like you for exactly who YOU are.....................its all about what you want.........I spent so long trying to be accepted and that's what made me realise people will only truly accept you if you are yourself!!!!
Sometimes you just have to determine what the person's motives are. Actions and words are one thing, but they can be just as easily misunderstood when you are not in tuned with the person's motives. Some people are like water, put them in any container and they take on that shape. If you care, then look deeper into the person's essence and don't get hung up on roles and names. I used to get so pissed off that people were willing to sacrifice certain things/qualities about themselves just to fit in, but then I asked myself. Why? They're not doing it for the sake of being fake, they're doing it for the sake of feeling accepted and wanted. And while it's unfortunate that they have tried to become a part of the crowd, it's very important to think about the root causes.
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