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Feminism: How it affects you, your divorce and your children

23 August 2013, 14:20

I’ve played this scratchy old record for you before, and I shall play it again. It never ceases to amaze me how MEN still don’t get it, and continue repeating the same actions with the same result: FAILURE!!

Feminism and its evil twin sister political correctness, are an ideology that is firmly entrenched in every country today, including South Africa. You will not see its face because it’s very cleverly disguised, camouflaged and presented as normal and socially acceptable. Until you dig deeper.

For us to understand why we lose our kids, experience bias in the courts, treated as second rate citizens and disposable walking wallets requires us to QUESTION where this behavior originates from. For example, we can all agree that a high court judge is a fairly educated intelligent person, has undergone a long period of training coupled with years of experience and is expected to apply all his faculties in making a moral, ethical, practical and fair judgment. Yet they don’t. All over the world, same story!

WHY? These are NOT isolated incidents. It is a common trend. Why do they persist in ignoring evidence proving a man is a good parent, that he has a right that is legal, natural and moral to spend time with his children, why do they continually by default grant custody (primary care) to the mother, even when there is prima facie evidence that doing so will harm the child?

Am I the only person thinking that that something is seriously wrong with ALL judges? A few sentences before, we agreed that they are fairly educated and intelligent. So what power or influence compels them to make these decisions that are so blatantly unfair and damaging? Feminism, that’s what.

So what is feminism? The cornerstone of feminism is misandry: Misandry is the hatred of males as a sex, as opposed to misogyny, the hatred of women; or misanthropy, hatred of the human species. Misandry comes from misos (Greek µ?s??, “hatred”) + andr-ia (Greek anér-andros, “man”). Those holding misandric beliefs can be of either sex.

To give you a scary example of how deep this runs, do you know that the word misandry is not recognized by any spellchecker? Type the word into your outlook and see if it comes up. Thought so…now why a word that describes what would is obviously real, tangible and defined in several dictionaries be excluded from Microsoft and other mail systems spellcheckers? Who would do that and more importantly, why?

To propagate feminism very subtly and covertly, so that no alarms are raised. Misandy is taught, yes taught throughout our lives. The next time you switch on the television, count how many programmes have the token ‘stupid boyfriend’ or ‘abusive husband’ or ‘paedophilic father’ figure. Switch over to a children’s channel / time window and watch how many cartoons or programmes reflect ‘silly daddy’ characters or ‘bullying big brother’.

Don’t forget, of course, nearly all the women in these same programmes will be smart, sexy, sassy and full of beans, capable of juggling a career lifestyle with children, a husband and a social circle – let’s not forget that she’s undoubtedly a wonderful cook and always remembers everybody’s birthdays. If these images are being constantly spread out over our airwaves, what does that tell our children who are growing up watching & learning 
daily, hourly, that men are just so stupid, abusive and … well, useless?

These are the same useless men who build space shuttles, fly passenger jumbo jets, and fix your plumbing, your motor car, pioneered open heart surgery and entire infrastructures upon which society is built, and yet are somehow incapable of looking after a three year old and too stupid to conduct their own affairs. Does this seem logical or true to you?

It has become socially acceptable to stereotype men this way, and with our SILENCE we have de facto agreed with this situation. ALL of this is done with the full and firm support of the government, who has and continues to indoctrinate our youth and the rest of society as we stand by and do nothing. Government continues to enforce programmes of anti male bias, “Violence against Women”, as if there are never any violence against men 
BY women.

Google Erin Pizzey, the original founder of women’s shelters in the UK, who herself was ejected from the UK feminist movement and collected a number of death threats, when she revealed that her stats indicated that in abusive homes, violence was almost EQUALLY perpetuated by BOTH sexes. Yes you read that right, feminists threatened to kill her when she declared that both men and women EQUALLY have a propensity for violence. Yet 
there is a great disparity in sentencing of males compared to females.

  • Sheryl Cwele, drug dealing, sentence reduced to 12 years
  • Jana Smit has sex with a dog, no jail, apparently “manipulated” by her boyfriend
  • Cezanne Visser, convicted of child molestation and pornography, paroled at less than half her sentence even though one of her victims committed suicide
  • Dina Pule disgraced MP, betrayed her oath of office, but welcomed back like a rock star.

I could go on but you get the picture, because you yourselves are acutely aware at how easy it is for a woman to walk into court and obtain a protection order against you, no investigation, no evidence, no nothing.

And it will go on. Who is going to stop them? All these things I can live with, but not the tragedy that is Family Law and effects upon children. Of all the vile, reprehensible, evil acts committed in the world, none compares to tearing a father away from his child. I cry as I write this, when I recall all the time lost with my daughter, her screams of “daddy, daddy, daddy daddy” over and over again as she was torn from my arms.  Her desperate, sad look as she was taken away, played over and over in my mind. It’s enough to drive any man insane.

Contrary to what you’ve been conditioned to believe or think, there is no greater love or devotion than a man has for his child. The same court that we diligently run to with our lawyers and advocates, frantically filing motions, crossing our T’s and dotting our I’s, those very same courts are the ones that created and sustain this mess that we are in, in their quest to pander to feminist ideology.

Imagine our insanity to go pleading to the very same people that put us in this position, and we do it repeatedly, with more or less the same result.

Do you think they’re ignorant of the damage done to our children, do you think they care? No my friend not one bit. Divorce is an industry to them, profits have to be made. So I’m asking you think about what I’ve told you, tell me which part is not true. Take some time for honest introspection and lift the wool from your eyes and see. Give me an alternate theory if you think I’m wrong. All I’m asking is for you to SPEAK out about this, silence 
is our death.

SPEAK about this at braai’s, with your work colleagues, your family, and friends and amongst ourselves. Debate it openly on forums, in news articles, make requests to radio stations. Make time to help other dads who are going through the same thing, reach out, connect with them because nobody else knows this pain like we do.

Read, research and analyze feminism and men’s rights, Google is your best friend, our time will come. It is impossible that such an illogical, bigoted and hateful movement such as feminism will last forever, eventually men will revolt. It has already started. This horror that is perpetuated on us transcends all races, religion, class and creed divisions, put your differences at the door and stand united or suffer defeat.

Lastly, after all that has happened to me, I do not hate women. I have a great mother, a young daughter and many supportive females in my family. They themselves are victims of feminist ideology that finally awoke to what is being done to their sons, brothers, fathers, nephews and all the men they love.

They woke up and are pissed off. And so am I. And so should YOU.

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