Relationships often end in a whirlwind of doubt and bitter accusation. You probably said a few things you didn't mean, and
she fought back. Now that you've had a little bit of time to think about what's been lost, you know you want her back.
Here's how to do that.
Get your life back on track. So you've been in a relationship for some time, and maybe your girlfriend has just broken it
off. It's a sad and lonely time for you right now, but focus on the things you can change about yourself before you move
back on to her.
Get the right attitude. Getting your ex-girlfriend back starts with finding the right attitude. Girls, for the most part,
want to see mature, independent guys who like to have fun and know what they're good at. We know that's a lot to work, so
start small if you're feeling overwhelmed.
Leave her alone. At least for a little while, give her some time to think about the relationship. If you had a great
relationship, she'll think about all the good things that you did for her and feel the absence of you in her life.
Start talking to another girl. Don't do anything with her, but strike up a friendship. You want to raise your own stock by
showing her that other girls like you and are attracted to you.
Tap your inner alpha male. The alpha male, in nature, is the male in a group of primates that has the highest rank, and
gets his pick of the females.
Give her an apology. Whether you broke up with her, or she broke up with you, an apology is almost always in order. An apology shows her that you're capable of swallowing your ego, and that you care enough to tell her you were wrong. If done correctly, an apology will work wonders.
Slowly work up to friendship. Maybe some trust was broken in your relationship, and now it's time for you to start repairing it. Trust for girls is a big thing. You want to show her that she can trust you again, that you are worthy of her trust.
Tell her you still have feelings for her. Once you've apologized and become her friend again, you can finally tell her you want her back. Try to pick a romantic spot to do this, and try to tell her when it's just you two. It won't hurt if you're looking your best.
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