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Real Love

10 October 2012, 07:20

If you are looking for love, chances are there is someone out there who is very compatible with you that is looking for love as well. In order to best pursue love, one should be willing to put in the effort to find it. Don't try to be what everyone wants you to be, instead be yourself, and find someone who truly loves you for you.

Never give up on love, though at times we may think that we will never find love, if we just keep a positive attitude, and keep our eyes and hearts open, love will find us. It's never too late to fall in love. True happiness isn't about the clothes you wear, or the wealth you have. It's the person who turns your world, and heart upside down, and desires your soul, and not your body. And for the both of us my darling, lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along. Serendipity is our love story, but everyone's journey to love.

People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a so...ul mate forever? Yes it's possible. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life…..(Eat, Pray, and Love)..

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not... knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares. Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful hand will take and shift them, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away..

Before you start a war, you better know what you're fighting for. Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine. Our business in life is not to get ahead of others, but to get ahead of ourselves -- to break our own records, to outstrip our yesterday by our today. Be the best version of you. Don't pretend to be someone you're not. It is better to suffer being who you are than it is to suffer trying to be someone that you are not. Search your heart to look for what you are passionate about, to find your hopes, your dreams, and what you believe in. No matter what happens in life never lose sight of who you are. Someone will always be more attractive, someone will always be smarter and someone will always be younger. But they will never be you.

Love doesn't ask who are you. Love only says "You are mine". Love doesn't ask where are you from. Love only says "You live in my heart". Love doesn't ask what to do. Love only says "You make my heart beat". Love doesn't ask why are you far away. Love only says "You are always with me". Love doesn't ask "Do you love me?". Love only says "I Love You". But me, I'm bad in English, but I can tell you ''I Love You''. I'm bad at Maths, but I know that you can count on me. And I'm bad at Geography, but I can tell you that you live in my heart.

One of the biggest truths to living a satisfied life full of happiness is that when we have love, we pretty much have everything that we need. Sure, a person's possessions of material things are a plus to life, but the most important thing that we will have throughout our lives is the love that we share with the people we are closest to in our lives, and hopefully the love that is returned back fr...om these same people.

There are many people in the world who have loads of material resources, such as clothing, money, cars, and houses, but even a man/woman with supreme material wealth has nothing if he/she has no one that loves him/her for who he/she really is on the inside. It is great to have dreams, material wealth, and friends who like you, but if you don't have anyone that loves you, or anyone that you love yourself, you may need to do some serious re-evaluating of your life in order to find real happiness.

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