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The sad truth...

05 July 2014, 07:24

So I know I shall sound evil to some if I just put it out there that I just do not care. Mostly for people who do not care for themselves. Why should I give a beggar in the streets money or even food? Most people get caught up in caring about other people to a point where they forget to take care of themselves.

They care about how other people are, how they are feeling, and even the one that I adore, caring about what other people say. Let me just say that being selfish in putting yourself first is the right way to go. By being selfish and not caring it does not mean you have to kick the beggar when you pass by him but it simply means if you have something in mind like a sweet for your 50c, do not give it to him even if he wants to buy bread.

Reason, you will sacrifice your sweet and give him your last coin today and tomorrow you will find him on the very same spot still asking for money just as yesterday, it’s always like deja vu. Basically whether you give the person something today will not make any difference for the future. So it is just a waste of time since you caring for somebody who doesn’t care for himself.

Do not waste your time with people who do not want to progress in life. Just do not care, and as a matter of fact like if you really care about whomever you say you do, teach the person how to fish. There are a number of examples of people who do not care about themselves and end up in a point of regret where they need pity and caring from others. Like for instance being told if you do this without this you will become incurably sick but continue anyways and then we should end up being the ones to take care of you. Why should we waste our time on you when you failed to think and take care of yourself?

I admire people who take responsibility for their actions and not beg for other people’s sympathy. Start caring for yourself first, more than anyone in the world and see how life would be. Most of the things people suffer themselves with caring about are mostly not about themselves.

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