From my heading I guess all the women are already glued to their screens to hear what I have to say about the topic. Firstly I just want to say each man's preference is different. I don't need a woman who washes my clothes, do the dishes herself or even clean the house herself or cook alone for that matter. My believe is that every man should help his woman in doing the daily tasks when both have a daily job to go to.
I do believe however when a man works alone and is the sole provider of the family then the woman must step up and do all of those things I mentioned in the previous paragraph. That brings me to another issue. When it is only the man working and you want something and he says no he is saying that for a reason not because he doesn't want to give it to you but he is thinking long term and he has to make sure that he can put food on the table for the rest of the month. Nagging him the whole time will pull him away from you.
A man want's a woman with confidence not a woman who complains all the time that her nose is skew or her boobs is too small etc. When a man says he accept you just the way you are believe him because he really means it. If you going to keep on critizicing yourself you will end up loosing him.
He want's you to be there for him when he goes through a difficult time. So smile at him and tell him no matter what happens atleast he still have you in his life.
Don't start a fight with him about stuff like not putting out the garbage bins or anything thats small because then he will not do it rather say "honey please don't forget to put out the garbage bin for me when you have a chance". He might have had a terrible day at work, when men are under alot of stress they forget and its not intentional.
Most important of all show you're love for him be affectionate BUT also give him his spare time there is nothing worse than a woman suffocating her man and not let him do anything he wants to do. Like play a round of golf. I can guarantee you that he will do the same for you because everybody needs their individual time for themselves.
Just have fun with you're partner I think that is very important and don't bring up any past arguments it will just lead to things you might say which you didn't want to say.
A man was created as a warrior so if you challenge his authority his self defence mechanism will kick in. Sometimes men make mistakes but rather help them through it than fighting it.
I can write a whole book about what to do and what not to do because of life experience but I guess from my article you can see what I am getting too....
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