I can not help but notice how many young black girls are goung out with older white guys,forgive me but is it scarce across other race,like white on white or colored on colored.
And an alarming number of white older men winking at me and asking for my number just freaks me out,and certanley doesnt make it better.I am not judging here,but what is the actual attraction besides a good life? Many black girls like me,comes from poverty,and yes,the thought of someone giving you what a normal guy your age can not,is kind of appealing,but who am i kidding,i want to laugh openly at the coffee shop when my boyfriend whispers a sweet nothing in my ear,without a care in the world,about what the young hot guy at the corner thinks about me.
Yes,i can get use to being able to getting milk at the pick 'n pay next to me,in the middle of the stormy weather,but at what expense?
How do i turn down a friend's invite to clubbing on a Friday night,when i know that her guy will be there,and i have a choice of bringing daddy with,or taging along like a single girl? Can daddy let me go drop it like it's hot while he catch up on his sleep,as i know,it has been a long week,what with him clinching that 3million rand deal? By the way,that means i can get an even faster car!
Tough choice,but i guess it comes down to what you want mostly,a nice shameful life or a cheap exiting life?Hopefully, the choice becomes easy as time goes on.
Please note,I'm 25 and still hope for a very intimate 40years to come.And yes,i do want to get married and have kid,but i also want a husband that can keep up.
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